Don’t blame me or anyone else if you ignore this rule and get ripped off.I’ve heard quite a few testimonies of guys that have started sending money to a girl in the Philippines only to discover that she was using him.The amazing Filipinos I have met and had experiences with. It may sound strange, but that mindset “expecting I must have a girlfriend or must be here because of girls”, and the large amount of Filipinos who constantly share it with me… I have met so many talented, caring, friendly, smart, beautiful, amazing Filipinas over the course of my time in the Philippines. of course I have been beyond interested in wanting to get to know some girls better, to get closer to a girl here, and to have a girlfriend. It gives me an opportunity to share and inspire pride in them. It definitely isn’t because I don’t find Filipina’s attractive… Maybe it will empower some Filipina women to not put themselves or foreigners into relationships that may not be positive to be in. I have met so many foreigners who within minutes start asking me about girls.
More importantly, I’ve found that it’s much easier to get a sense of chemistry when you are actually talking (instead of typing).Here I am a 26yr old foreigner semi-fluent in Bisaya, basic knowledge of Tagalog who is living in the Philippines. I have met some Filipinas that right away make me wish I had the privilege of saying… It helps me inspire some positive thinking in the minds of people I look up to… I have found over the course of my time in the Philippines I have pushed away any opportunity I may have had to date a Filipina and to get close to a Filipina. In fact just a few days ago a foreigner told me: “You must be a big hit with the ladies. Get a few beers in you and I bet all the stories will come out.” Stories of a 26yr old who even though maybe lonely in that aspect of his life, just doesn’t agree with people focusing on being with girls here as being the best part of the Philippines. I completely understand why foreigners talk about the girls here so much, because they are amazing, and yes chances are you will get a lot of attention from them if you are a nice guy. One day we were hanging out looking for ingredients to make some food.Now if you are Filipino reading this I want you to stop here and think: If you didn’t know me, had no clue what I was doing here in the Philippines. What would your guess be as to how I got here, and why I choose to stay here? We headed to the market in Cebu to pick up fresh vegetables.It isn’t that difficult if you’ll just do a few things:*Do a little social media background check on the girl you are chatting with.She should give you her Facebook information so you can check here profile out.